20
February
2009

Hey iam mohammed imran yousuff now aged 27 , born and bought up in india (chennai) , i like to share the worst and best experience in love. He was just a normal indian boy who just enjoy being with friends and family and the world for him is just his friends and place where he lives , after his graduation he wasted one year of his time to know what he wants from his life and finally he decides to go abroad for further education   guess!! you are right? its all time favorite destination for all (United Kingdom) where he realized the world is not small and his lonliness made him to try internet dating.                  He had less knowledge about internet dating and he felt just talking to people  it made him to feel better , he used to spend most of his time in chatting with different kind of people on yahoo messanger , he used to have too many friends on net and one day everything changes , his thought changes and he wanted to look for someone serious in his life, he wanted to find the girl of his life , so he joined muslim matrimonial.com where he met someone enterly different kind of person , he saw her pictures  she was a beautiful south african negarian born (white women) who proposed interest on him, first few weeks went like heaven for him and she tells him all her personal things about herself and her family, she tells him that she takes care of her family as her father is sick and she have no mother to take care of things , he felt that  she is a  good responsible girl and due to her honest way of speaking, his interest on her flared up like a forest fire. she send him so beautiful letters and greetings online, everyday  after he finish his classes. he spend his most of the time with her on internet.. Oneday she proposes her love for him , he felt like flying high on the sky , there realationship took more serious role within two months he felt so unresistable to her, as he had toconsult the decision of his life , he tells about the girl to his parents , at the begining its very hard to accept for any indian family but his mother was really open minded and she accepts  his wish and she ask him to send the girls picture , he goes too happy that he must be truly lucky to get marry with his parents blessings. he tells the girl that he is going to send her picture to his mom but she goes nervous and says she wanted to send best picture by her own , she sends the good taken picture , the boys family liked her so much and they wave him green flag, As everything went cool , he want to invite the girl to uk on visiting visa and she said that she might have difficulty for the travel expenses , she ask him if he could help her for ticket and visa expenses. he sends her the money after he realized her urgue to come and see him and  the girl conforms him that she is coming on certain date by certain flight on certain time ,that day he was very happy and he planned to surprise her by inviting his mom for a visit to uk to see her. so everything he planned for both and he was waiting for the day to come.A month a head , he used to chat with her for ages and they went so close to eachother. oneday she phones him and cry that her father has been admitted in the hospital for heartattack, she cried so much on the phone, he went so panic and tryed to console her , she said she have no money for hospital and he send her some money for the medical expenses and he stays in touch with her through out the progress, oneday her father speaks to him to take care of her daughter and that was so heart touching and he also promises him no matter what happens she will definately visit him to uk , i will recover soon. inshallah. he hangs up……. Its been a week for the girl to arrive . she calls him again and cries and says that her father past away , it was really painfull when someone who you love cries , definately your heart will melt in pain , he console her so much he was very dipressed and disturbed and went through a very hard time of his life, she ask him some money for the burial expenses,  after all the religious ceremony her father was buried and she finally make her mind to come to him as she have no one for herself , he felt really responsible to take care of her and she said to him that she will settle everything and will come on the sheduled date, he said everything to his mother of what happen.                                she felt very sorry for the girl and send heartfull condolences, the date has arrived she phoned him from the airport and said she has borded the flight and will be reaching in 8 hours. he was too happy and his mother was due to come in coming week. so he arranged accomodation for three and made all arrangments perfectly made, he went to the airport and waited for her in arrival , as the time passes she did not come out ,he enquired about the flight and it was  arrived and everyone is out, and he thought may be she is coming in next flight and waited for her nearly the whole day his tears were rolling in his eyes that he was very sensitive and caring towards her and he went panic after all searches he return back from the airport and went to his room and cried a lot after like an hour.        she calls him and she says that her father relatives stopped her coming to uk and said that they demanding dowry for her from him. she said as per there culture man has to give dowry for women, after talking to her he hang up the phone and said he will call her back he went down the stairs and he sat there for ages and thinking  about the whole story and his friends told him the girl might be fooling him? but he still belived her because he loved her , he haven’t got much money to pay her so he asked for the time , she started asking him money everyday  and she writes very touchy emails that he left her alone in the hands of her relatives and after all the stunts she calls him oneday and his mother picks up the phone. she ask her to come online on the web camera to see her , she came online after various compeltions and the day they all waited to see her on webcam which she have never came before , she came and everyone went in shock she was a black african women , the picture she send was the fake pictures of someother person and she still wanted to fool him saying that she is the same person on picture which she have send earlier and he switch off the computer and he realized and all she did just for money and she is a proffessional in scamming and its her master mind who planned everything. but for him its all about true feeling which has been abused by a scammer his mother pacify him and promise him to find a nice girl so that he recover out of the nightmare.  This story is about is none other than me!   who gone through pain and hard time of my life . so friends iam a certain example  for the boys and girls who should be really carefull in internet relationship.And onemore thing i have mentioned it above about  my good experience. yes after all the bad happening you will get good , yes i did found my soul mate on the same website which i was really afriad to go. if you want to know my good part of my life . please leave me comments and i will post my good part too. Thank you reading my story. wish you all the best…… 

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8
January
2009

It all began when i was going through a marriage break up. I was handling things quite well concidering, but was feeling a bit lonely and i decided to get on the internet and see what it was all about. I accidently came across a chat room here in Australia and it was so bad in there with all the racial abuse, so i decided not to go back. After trying several others with the same results, i had decided to give up on them when i saw this one called chat.onlinenigeria.com. Well i don’t know what made me join it, but i did and within days i had made all these wonderful friends. I had learned all about this country that i knew absolutely nothing about. I learned that you have to be careful because there are scammers.  I had some calling me just to say hi and others exchanging messenger ID’s so we could chat there too. It was great and each night i would go online and chat with all my new friends. All the people were so friendly and because i was a white woman from Australia, i had become very popular with everyone there. As the weeks passed by i met more and more people who became great friends. One night this man entered the chat room and greeted the room, but i was the only person to greet him back. He tried unsuccessfully to fit in, so he then came to my PM to see if i would like to chat with him. I agreed as i did with everyone else there. We chatted for ever so long and then i asked him if he had MSN messenger. He did, so we exchanged ID’s and chatted there until the early hours, until it almost daylight so i had to go to bed. When we began chatting, I had this feeling inside me which i cannot fully explain, but somehow this man had  reached deep inside my soul. In the few hours we were chatting i knew all his family, where he was born, what he did for work, where he lives and where he has travelled to. I too had passed on the same information to him. but i felt i knew more about him and his life, than he did about me and mine. The next night i was online again and he called me up on MSN again and we chatted for hours. As soon as i saw him there my heart began to flutter, which it had never done before with any other chatters. I was thinking to myself how stupid this was and he is just another chatter from half way around the world. Again we chatted for hours about everything and nothing, but i really enjoyed myself more than with anyone else i had chatted with. The next night when i was online again he again called me up again, but this time i sat back and ignored him because i was afraid of how i was feeling. This went on for a few days of ignoring him and i never saw him in the chat room at all, so i thought he had gone away. Two weeks later i was online and he called me up on MSN again and this time i said hello. It was like a fairytale from that moment on. He told me how much he had missed me to which i had to admit that i had missed chatting with him too. Again we talked for hours and this time he asked for my number so he can call  me someday. We exchanged numbers and i called his number straight away. The moment i heard his voice my heart began to melt. I was like a teenager falling in love for the first time. He told me he loved my voice and that he really likes me. We didn’t talk for long, but again the next day i couldn’t wait to see him online again. We would talk for hours each night and laugh and joke with each other and had the greatest time of our lives. If he came online and i wasn’t there he would call me on the phone to see if i was okay. On the weekends he would go to a cafe and we would talk and see each other on web cam. He would send me romantic emails and cards by email. I wasn’t into black men before, but somehow this black man had stolen my heart and i couldn’t wait to meet him online each day. As the days turned into weeks we finally declared how we really felt for each other. But now the big question was, how can this love ever become something more than an online romance when we live half a world apart? We kept on chatting day after day until  we could no longer just sit here on the internet chatting with the feelings we had for each other. I decided i had to meet him in person to see if what we were feeling was for real, or just infatuation that will dwindle away once we finally meet in person. Now was the hard part  because i didn’t have the money to travel, but i knew somehow i had to find it. I applied for a personal loan and within days i had the verbal approval, so i quickly organized my passport, visa and air tickets to Nigeria and by then the loan was all through. I had just three weeks to get things organized here and then i was off to a country which people were saying I will be murdered or raped within the first day of arriving and there was no way i will ever come home alive, from travelling to a country with such a reputation and bad name. Well i hadn’t heard all the bad things about Nigeria and i wasn’t going to let a few peoples’ say so stop me from going to meet this wonderful man i had met. Finally the time had arrived and i was off on the journey of a lifetime. I had a fourteen hour flight to Dubai with a three and a half hour stop over and then another seven hours to Lagos. I was so excited, but at the same time worried incase he wasn’t there to meet me as planned. Worried incase he didn’t really exist. Luckily i had met so many great friends in the chat room that many had given me their details incase i was stranded when i arrived there. As i finally got off the plane the humidity almost knocked me over and after being so exhausted from the long flight i wondered what i had done. Here i was in long sleeves in this gruelling heat and not knowing what was ahead of me. Finally after passing though customs i then had another hour to sit and wait for my suitcase. I sat down on a step and called my man and told him i am here and he said he is at the gate waiting as planned. I was so relieved to hear that. Finally my suitcase was there and i walked out into the hottest most humid weather i had ever endured in my life, but as i thought i was going to die from the heat, i looked over to see the most beautiful smile i have ever seen in my life. There he was standing there like a prince. My heart melted as i made my way to him. Our arms embraced each other and we stood staring into each others eyes and giggled like two kids in love. We didn’t realy kiss, as that isn’t how they greet in Nigeria, but it was like magic just the same. He left me with his friends as he went to get the car and then we made our way back to the hotel. He said i was better to stay in a hotel because his house had no working shower and there was a lot of building work going on there and he knew i liked my comforts. Lol. It was so good to be able to lie down at last and what made it even better was to lay in the arms of this beautiful man i had met online all those months ago. It was all my dreams coming true. He was more beautiful in person. He treated me like a queen. Nothing was too much trouble for him. Through the day he would take me places with his friends. He took me to his home where there was still a lot of building work going on, so we would hang around there for  some time while he helped his uncle with ordering building equipment etc. His uncle invited me to his town which is near my mans’ home town and he gave us the money to travel there. It was great. We spent the next week and a half travelling to the east to his uncles home and then to his families village to meet his family. From there we travelled to another state to visit a jungle. It was so fantastic. Just the two of us together like husband and wife. We just hit it off so well together and fell more in love with each other every day. I was in a foreign country full of the happiest and friendliest people in the world. No signs of any troubles, especially where i thought my life was at risk. My man made sure i was never alone and he doted on me left right and centre. Finally my six weeks had come to an end and i had to return to Australia. It was the saddest day of my life when i had to say goodbye to him. His uncle told me not to worry because he will bring him to Australia as soon  as possible, so we can be together again. Still it didn’t make saying goodbye any easier. I fought so hard to fight back the tears. As i kissed him goodbye i turned and walked through the gates, then turning back as i watched him virtually running out of the airport. He too was holding back the tears. As he and his friend returned to the hotel to collect his things, he entered the room and collapsed on the bed in tears and had to pay another night to stay there, as he laid there crying for hours. I too cried some tears on the plane, but had to stay in control because i knew if i didn’t i would lose it totally. After arriving home i called him and the whole time i cried. He told me that he and his uncle were organizing coming to Australia as soon as possible and not to worry. Well it was much harder than we ever thought and it took just over twelve months to finally get him here on a visitor visa for eight weeks. When he arrived it was like magic all over again. He was more beautiful than i had remembered. We were more in love than ever. We decided to marry while he was here because i had no chance of travelling back to nigeria in the next year or so and we wanted to be a family as soon as possible. I am now his wife and it is almost two weeks since he had to return to Nigeria. Being apart from him is so hard, but with our love for each other i know we can get through it all until his visa is though again. I have never been so in love with a man before. He is such a beautiful man and everyone who met him agrees. My son and my husband get on so well together and are like best friends. It was such a relief to see us all as a happy family. It was a bigger relief to see that our love has lasted through being separated for so long and by thousands of miles too. I never thought in a million years that i would ever marry a man from overseas, let alone off the internet, but i have and i am very much in love my new husband and very proud to be his wife. I also love his culture which makes it better for us both. I also love the food that he cooks so well and we sit and share it together which gives us more quality time to enjoy each others company. He is a wonderful man and i worship the ground he walks on.

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