20
February
2009

Hey iam mohammed imran yousuff now aged 27 , born and bought up in india (chennai) , i like to share the worst and best experience in love. He was just a normal indian boy who just enjoy being with friends and family and the world for him is just his friends and place where he lives , after his graduation he wasted one year of his time to know what he wants from his life and finally he decides to go abroad for further education   guess!! you are right? its all time favorite destination for all (United Kingdom) where he realized the world is not small and his lonliness made him to try internet dating.                  He had less knowledge about internet dating and he felt just talking to people  it made him to feel better , he used to spend most of his time in chatting with different kind of people on yahoo messanger , he used to have too many friends on net and one day everything changes , his thought changes and he wanted to look for someone serious in his life, he wanted to find the girl of his life , so he joined muslim matrimonial.com where he met someone enterly different kind of person , he saw her pictures  she was a beautiful south african negarian born (white women) who proposed interest on him, first few weeks went like heaven for him and she tells him all her personal things about herself and her family, she tells him that she takes care of her family as her father is sick and she have no mother to take care of things , he felt that  she is a  good responsible girl and due to her honest way of speaking, his interest on her flared up like a forest fire. she send him so beautiful letters and greetings online, everyday  after he finish his classes. he spend his most of the time with her on internet.. Oneday she proposes her love for him , he felt like flying high on the sky , there realationship took more serious role within two months he felt so unresistable to her, as he had toconsult the decision of his life , he tells about the girl to his parents , at the begining its very hard to accept for any indian family but his mother was really open minded and she accepts  his wish and she ask him to send the girls picture , he goes too happy that he must be truly lucky to get marry with his parents blessings. he tells the girl that he is going to send her picture to his mom but she goes nervous and says she wanted to send best picture by her own , she sends the good taken picture , the boys family liked her so much and they wave him green flag, As everything went cool , he want to invite the girl to uk on visiting visa and she said that she might have difficulty for the travel expenses , she ask him if he could help her for ticket and visa expenses. he sends her the money after he realized her urgue to come and see him and  the girl conforms him that she is coming on certain date by certain flight on certain time ,that day he was very happy and he planned to surprise her by inviting his mom for a visit to uk to see her. so everything he planned for both and he was waiting for the day to come.A month a head , he used to chat with her for ages and they went so close to eachother. oneday she phones him and cry that her father has been admitted in the hospital for heartattack, she cried so much on the phone, he went so panic and tryed to console her , she said she have no money for hospital and he send her some money for the medical expenses and he stays in touch with her through out the progress, oneday her father speaks to him to take care of her daughter and that was so heart touching and he also promises him no matter what happens she will definately visit him to uk , i will recover soon. inshallah. he hangs up……. Its been a week for the girl to arrive . she calls him again and cries and says that her father past away , it was really painfull when someone who you love cries , definately your heart will melt in pain , he console her so much he was very dipressed and disturbed and went through a very hard time of his life, she ask him some money for the burial expenses,  after all the religious ceremony her father was buried and she finally make her mind to come to him as she have no one for herself , he felt really responsible to take care of her and she said to him that she will settle everything and will come on the sheduled date, he said everything to his mother of what happen.                                she felt very sorry for the girl and send heartfull condolences, the date has arrived she phoned him from the airport and said she has borded the flight and will be reaching in 8 hours. he was too happy and his mother was due to come in coming week. so he arranged accomodation for three and made all arrangments perfectly made, he went to the airport and waited for her in arrival , as the time passes she did not come out ,he enquired about the flight and it was  arrived and everyone is out, and he thought may be she is coming in next flight and waited for her nearly the whole day his tears were rolling in his eyes that he was very sensitive and caring towards her and he went panic after all searches he return back from the airport and went to his room and cried a lot after like an hour.        she calls him and she says that her father relatives stopped her coming to uk and said that they demanding dowry for her from him. she said as per there culture man has to give dowry for women, after talking to her he hang up the phone and said he will call her back he went down the stairs and he sat there for ages and thinking  about the whole story and his friends told him the girl might be fooling him? but he still belived her because he loved her , he haven’t got much money to pay her so he asked for the time , she started asking him money everyday  and she writes very touchy emails that he left her alone in the hands of her relatives and after all the stunts she calls him oneday and his mother picks up the phone. she ask her to come online on the web camera to see her , she came online after various compeltions and the day they all waited to see her on webcam which she have never came before , she came and everyone went in shock she was a black african women , the picture she send was the fake pictures of someother person and she still wanted to fool him saying that she is the same person on picture which she have send earlier and he switch off the computer and he realized and all she did just for money and she is a proffessional in scamming and its her master mind who planned everything. but for him its all about true feeling which has been abused by a scammer his mother pacify him and promise him to find a nice girl so that he recover out of the nightmare.  This story is about is none other than me!   who gone through pain and hard time of my life . so friends iam a certain example  for the boys and girls who should be really carefull in internet relationship.And onemore thing i have mentioned it above about  my good experience. yes after all the bad happening you will get good , yes i did found my soul mate on the same website which i was really afriad to go. if you want to know my good part of my life . please leave me comments and i will post my good part too. Thank you reading my story. wish you all the best…… 

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1
February
2009

Hosting a wedding doesn’t come cheap, but it is possible to organise this special day without breaking the bank. In fact, there are many ways in which you can make considerable savings, whilst still putting on the wedding of your dreams; a little bit of creativity and a helping hand from your loved ones is key in such circumstances.

First instance, an extravagant wedding cake can prove very costly, especially as we all want a cake that will stick in the mind of Aunt Helen from Australia for many years to come. But in fact, the wedding cake is one of the easiest areas to make savings. Therefore, why not ask a family member who is skilled – and enthused – when it comes to baking to design a cake for you? Similarly, buffet snacks can easily be created in the form of simple and effective finger foods, and without forking out on the cost of an expensive caterer.

It is also possible to make savings on the wedding invitations. Indeed, not only are they easy to design but you and your fiancé will have fun making your own! For example, purchasing card material is relatively inexpensive, which you can then use to attach the relevant information and photograph. A passport sized photograph of you and your fiancé will suffice and can be purchased very cheaply too.

You can save costs on the actual wedding venue, providing you are open minded and choose wisely. As such, a well decorated garden at your family or friends home can provide an equally impressive reception – with a little thought and effort. For example, shells picked up from a nearby beach – which should be thoroughly cleaned – make excellent centrepieces, whilst large branches or twigs from the garden draped with fairy lights can create a natural and well-lit ambiance.

However, there is more to a wedding than the overall presentation of your chosen venue; entertainment is equally important. After the vows and speeches are all said and done, your guests will be ready to let their hair down. Rather than worry about how much you will be charged to hire a DJ, why not run the show yourself in the shape of an iPod disco and shuffle your favourite tunes? A suitable sound system will still be required, but this will cost considerably less than that of a DJ and the accompanied equipment.

As you can see, it is possible to make various cutbacks but one area where it does pay to sensibly invest in is wedding insurance. That way, you can be sure all the hard work and effort you have placed into organising the wedding of your dreams is covered should the worst happen.

Reagan Blackpool is a dedicated wedding enthusiast and a writer for a digital marketing agency. This article is not intended as either advice or as a promotion but should be considered professional content.

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