From the first he was fun and flirty but he knew I was married. We chatted very briefly occasionally as he travelled frequently with his job. While he was away on business, I left my unhappy marriage so I could sort out what I wanted to do with my life! 

When he came home he messaged me to say he was back and I told him I had left my husband of 21 years. He said now I am not afraid to ask for what I want! I did not have strong feelings for him at the start, really only friendship and lots of fun to help me forget my problems. But my feelings grew very quickly, he was a wonderful and caring person. If I had made a list of attributes I wanted in a man he would be the carbon copy. I have told him I am going to pinch him when we meet just to see that he is real and not a figment of my imagination! 

Any way our relationship has continued on ICQ chats, messages, E-mails, postcards and finally the phone. Now we have arranged to meet in the US on 19th March 2000. We have been counting down the days till my plane arrives and we can have ten full days together and i can make arrangements to shift halfway around the world to live with the one great love of my life! I will keep you posted about the outcome!!

"Judy"