I met him and can I say love was instantaneous,... no it wasn't.. but there was something there.. when we talked on the internet he was very honest and very upfront.. he had never been married and lived with his elderly mother.. I being divorced with three sons he was very careful... he is handicapped but has never let that stand in front of him as a barrier to what he wants out of life.. well as in all good relationships it has taken time to grow and mature.. and we became engaged in January of this year.. and I will be moving there this Summer or soon after.. 

"Jill"